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Four things helping my SPD (aka pelvic girdle pain aka world’s most painful bum and hips)…

July 25, 2017 By Poppy Dinsey Leave a Comment

I haven’t blogged as much as I’d have liked to over the past few weeks for one simple reason: everything hurts. As my hips crunched together and my thighs went numb, I almost started to fondly miss the nausea and sweating of weeks gone by. Not being able to walk is really very boring.

Pelvic pain is common during pregnancy, the NHS website says that 1 in 5 women get it to some degree, but of course this will range in severity from woman to woman from “ooooh me back hurts” (kinda to be expected unfortunately, during the bizarre miracle that is growing a human inside you) to “can’t walk without crutches”.

Way back in 2010 when I was under the chronic pain & maxfax teams at Royal Surrey for my jaw and neck issues, I was warned that pregnancy would likely be problematic for me. A combo of rubbish hips and a hefty dose of the not-remotely-relaxing “relaxin” hormone was never going to be a recipe for comfort. What I didn’t know back then of course was that I would one day be pregnant with not one baby, but two. Two lovely gorgeous babies who at the 24 week scan registered as being on the 92nd percentile in terms of size. They are big. I am big. And like all twin mums my body has had to stretch to accomodate them ludicrously quickly.

I have found the speed of bump growth hard the whole way along to be honest, I wouldn’t say it has ever felt comfortable, but over the last few weeks it got really bad. There have been times where I’ve tried to dawdle very short distances, then been literally 500 metres from home and had to get a taxi. I was crying on a daily basis because it felt like I was wearing knickers made of lead. My legs wouldn’t move the way they should. I couldn’t bend down. I couldn’t get comfortable sat down. I couldn’t do the stairs. I felt like I couldn’t do ANYTHING.

But! And there is a but, before everyone worries this is purely a moan-fest, I have found some things which have made me feel a lot better. Praise be!

SPD

Obviously the main thing that has helped has been giving in to the fact that my body is under a lot of stress and realising it’s absolutely ok to turn down invitations, rest up and duck out of chores. I didn’t expect to wind down work as early as 25 weeks but I’m not going to meetings anymore (well, not unless it’s properly important and I can taxi door-to-door) and I really limit my time at my desk. I do as many emails as I can from my phone whilst horizontal (yey!) and whilst I’m still taking on paid work for now and looking at some really exciting projects, I’m also getting everything in place to start my maternity allowance early. Nothing is more important than the babies and whilst SPD can’t harm the babies in any way, it’s not helpful for me to be upset and stressed at a time when I was otherwise feeling ludicrously joyous. Changing the pressure I was putting on myself to pretty much zero has been a HUGE help and I am so much happier for it.

As well as reducing my workload and saying goodbye to stacking the dishwasher, I’ve also bought a few things which have made a difference…

Things that help my SPD

Serola Sacroiliac Belt

I’ve wanted to buy a pelvic support belt for a while but was at a loss as to where to begin as they all looked so different; some looked like cruel contraptions for the hips whilst others looked more like massive Spanx to cover the whole bump. Luckily the physiotherapist at the hospital let me try a belt which she thought would make a big difference given my symptoms and I went straight home and ordered it. I had felt relief immediately when she’d fastened it on me and whilst I couldn’t take it home (*sob*) I Primed one and since Friday I’ve been wearing it whenever I’ve needed to walk anywhere or be out of the house. It has really helped. Granted I’ve only had it a few days, but it has REALLY changed my ability to do simple things like “walk around the supermarket”. I still doubt I could walk very far, but it has made a world of difference and I wish I had bought one sooner.

I bought a size large (this was what the physio fit me in so I could buy it confidently) and I liked knowing that this is what an NHS physio would recommend. I’m always wary of “gadgets” when it comes to anything as important as “our skeletons” but I read lots of reviews, it’s commonly used across hospitals and – more than anything else – I’ve felt the relief for myself. This was money well spent.

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Coccyx Orthopedic Cushion

My tailbone has been in agony for a while now so when this cushion came up as a lightning deal during Prime Day I almost didn’t care if it was going to be a gimmicky load of rubbish. I bought it knowing I was about to sit in the car to Manchester and if it could help even a tiny bit to take the pressure off my bum then it would have been worth buying. Much to my surprise, it has actually been really really helpful. I use it at my desk and when I sit in the car, but I also take it out with me (revel in my coolness) if I know I’ll be sitting down anywhere for long.

It IS weird to sit on something which feels a bit like a potty, but it’s extremely comfortable to sit on and I have found it helps my posture enormously – as well as crucially taking the pressure off my coccyx.

Buy here.

Exercise Ball

Another recommendation from the physio, I bought this to do some of the pelvic exercises I’d been recommended but it’s also just really nice to sit on in front of the telly. Apparently some people find them useful in labour too!

Buy here.

Maternity Pillow

bbhugme

I’ve fully reviewed the bbhugme already here but I thought I’d include it in this post too as it’s definitely an important weapon in my fight against SPD. It keeps my hips in an optimal position when sleeping and I also use it tied up to support my back when sat down on the sofa. It’s BRILLIANT.

Buy here.

I know I’m only going to get bigger, but I hope these things will continue to help me going forward. I want the babies to stay put as long as possible (and to get as big and strong as possible – COME ON BABIES, YOU CAN DO IT!) so I have no complaints there, it’s just hard sometimes when you feel physically very trapped by discomfort.

I’ll be starting hydrotherapy at the hospital in August hopefully and I would definitely recommend to anyone suffering in pregnancy to speak to their midwife for a referral to physio. Of course there are aspects of pregnancy which are always going to be uncomfortable, but if you think you have pelvic girdle pain (more info here) then you must say because there are definitely things you can try. And the sooner you speak up, the sooner you may get some relief!

Happy waddling 😀

x

Filed Under: FP, Pregnancy

Thoughts on our twins antenatal course…

July 24, 2017 By Poppy Dinsey Leave a Comment

There aren’t many rites of passages quite like sitting in a village hall with a bunch of equally terrified parents-to-be and getting ready to change a dolly’s nappy. That was, in part, how ST and I spent our Saturday…

Tamba Antenatal Course ReviewI went full Cash Hughes and became VERY protective of my twin dolls, especially the diddy one. (Side note: if you’re not sure if you’re decided on your baby names, carry around some dolls for a few hours as I am now 100% convinced. Maaaaan, I miss my dolls.)

We’re doing a local NCT course in September and I intend to to do the free NHS course at my hospital, but the antenatal course which I’ve always been most excited about was the one we went to this weekend – a 6.5 hour twin-fest focused solely on multiple births. The course was run by Twin Birth in conjunction with Tamba, the leading UK multiple birth charity. Tamba offer shorter antenatal classes too (as well as courses for second-time parents who are expecting twins), but we wanted to dive in and do the full day course as we knew this would give us the opportunity to cover everything in more detail.

There were 7 couples on our course and we were all first time parents at a similar stage in pregnancy, so from the get-go it was just really nice to chat to other people going through the exact same stuff that we are. Of course a lot of the fears and questions that new parents face are common across the board, but it IS different when you’re expecting twins and so to be able to talk these things through – face to face – was just really re-assuring I suppose.

There have been times during this pregnancy where I’ve wondered if I was worrying too much/planning too much/reading too much/complaining about my back too much and actually the more I speak to other twin mums-to-be the more I realise it is completely normal. We’re having high-risk pregnancies and our antenatal care and birth choices are different from the outset, not to mention the fact that there’ll be two babies to look after at the end of it (it can be surprisingly easy to forget that part when you’re busy worrying about premature labour and NICU stays) so of course we’re going to approach pregnancy a bit differently. Our pregnancies ARE different.

The course started with us setting out our hopes and aims for the day and by the end of the afternoon we’d definitely covered everything we’d wanted to. The day was structured around the agenda we’d set ourselves but as a loose guide, we basically covered the following…

  • Factors influencing type of birth for twins or triplets
  • Role of birth partner in vaginal or C section birth
  • Recognising signs of labour, what to expect in labour and how multiple birth differs from singleton birth
  • How you can cope with labour pain and what choices you have
  • How to make a twin or triplet birth plan
  • How to make Caesarean birth special if that is your chosen option
  • Recovery after both types of birth
  • Prematurity
  • What happens if twins or triplets arrive early
  • How to feed, change and care for more than one baby at a time
  • Co-bedding twins and routines for twins
  • Impact on relationships
  • What equipment you really need
  • How to get out and about with twins
  • How to survive the early days and weeks after the birth

We also had a visit from twin parents who’d been in our position on the course just over a year ago, so they could share their experiences of their first 11 months with their babies. This was really helpful and after we’d all chatted together, the group split so that the men could chat to the dad and the women could chat to the mum. We all had lots of questions as you can imagine, so it was nice to be able to bombard someone who’d done it all so recently!

Whilst the day was structured, our course leader Sharon was really good at keeping an informal feeling throughout. We could all jump in with questions at any time and this was really useful, as inevitably the questions being asked were things I’d been thinking about myself or things I hadn’t considered yet but really should have.

This is where I’d say the course is invaluable really, as whilst I’m looking forward to NCT and meeting local mums from down the road, I’m not expecting the content to turn out to be that enlightening as I highly doubt there’ll be anyone else there expecting twins. Being in a group where everyone was in the same position made life so much easier as every hand raised meant we were all learning something useful and relevant. I’ve also heard horror stories about c-sections only getting a passing mention at NCT so given I know I’m having one, it was great on Saturday to talk about sections in detail and we got some really good pointers about how we can still make the experience ‘special’.

I’ve had the luxury of being able to spend a lot of time reading (and, errr, obsessing) about twin pregnancies, births, breastfeeding and so on, so whilst I wouldn’t necessarily say I “learnt” a huge amount on the day that I hadn’t already thought about, it was really reassuring as it confirmed a lot of the things I’d read and – crucially – it gave ST a chance to ask lots of questions and to gain a much better understanding of what the next year of our lives might look like. The worries he has are very different to mine, so for him to be able to chat these through in the group was great. I also thoroughly enjoyed being proved right throughout the day, as I’ve often said “we need to think about xyz” and it has seemed ludicrous but actually it turns out I’ve been correct all along – HURRAH! I mean surely that sense of oneupmanship is worth the course fee in itself?!

We both really enjoyed the day and probably the best feedback I can give the course is that we drove back home feeling incredibly excited rather than scared. We really can’t wait to meet these bubbas and whilst we do still have loads of things we need to get sorted it all feels very doable. We know it’s going to be hard and we know what challenges we can expect to face, but we also know how rewarding it will be in the long-run.

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The course was £150 and that fee included follow-up support, refreshments (yeeeeeah I ate a LOT of biscuits) and loads of materials to take home with us like the above booklets. We went to a course in Chiswick but they’re run all over the country and as I mentioned earlier, there are shorter (and much cheaper) classes as well as webinars on specific topics. There are also classes for parents of older twins on things like sleep, schooling and teen years. I’ve booked to do a breastfeeding multiples webinar next month for £15. You can find out more info on courses and booking details here.

The last thing we did as a group was go round the room and each say what we’re most looking forward to about being twin parents. Everyone said something completely different, but I think we could all relate to everything that was said. There really is so much to look forward to.

It’s going to be a wild ride, but it will be undeniably special too.

We can’t wait!

x

Filed Under: FP, Pregnancy

Baby Equipment Haul!

July 21, 2017 By Poppy Dinsey Leave a Comment

Me up until the 20 week scan: “We mustn’t buy anything. Let’s not get ahead of ourselves.”

Me now: “We need 400 muslins IMMEDIATELY”

This video is all about the baby “stuff” we’ve amassed so far… pram, changing bag, car seats, gadgets, breastfeeding bits – all that type of thing. No clothes though as I can’t really share clothes without giving the game away in terms of genders! (Trust me though, I have very much enjoyed doing the clothes part. I have a favourite babygrow hanging in my office and one under my pillow. *Bit weird*).

I still have stuff some pretty essential stuff to buy but this is where we’re at currently. I’m sure there’ll be more vids like this as the nursery gets kitted out more…..eeeeeeep!

And of course, I’ll review the items properly once the babies are here. At the moment I’m pretty much just going off your recommendations, other bloggers, friends and fam and random strangers on Amazon. Natch.

Thanks for watching!

x

Filed Under: FP, Pregnancy

Best maternity pillow ever?! A bbhugme review…

July 6, 2017 By Poppy Dinsey 2 Comments

I think we’ve all seen enough whinging from me when it comes to my lack of sleep (sorry!) but over the last fortnight or so my sleep has dramatically improved.

Why?

Because I’ve been sharing my bed with a lovely sausage (oooh errr) in the form of the bbhugme…

bbhugme review

About a month ago on Instagram I asked for recommendations for pregnancy pillows (you can see what was suggested here if of interest as there’s a whole heap mentioned, across all budgets) and the pillow that I liked the look of the most was the bbhugme.

Created by a team of highly experience Scandinavian chiropractors, the bbhugme is designed to “grow with you” throughout pregnancy and beyond. It can be a maternity pillow now, when sleep is of the utmost importance, but then later it can be a baby nest and a nursing pillow. Oh and of course it can always be used as a back support and a generally lovely “thing” to cuddle. It is SO nice to cuddle.

bbhugme review

I was lucky enough to get my hands (and bump!) on a sample for review but I was under no obligation to post about it nor would I sit here and tell you to buy one if I didn’t think it was amazing. There’s a lot of kit to buy when you’re pregnant and the last thing you want to do is waste your money on tat, but for me this product is an absolute game-changer.

The fact it has really helped me to sleep (ya know, when I’m not up five times a night to pee) is of course really important but I have found it a god send for lounging about the house too. For a long time now I haven’t been able to get comfy at all on the sofa and I’ve often gone to bed purely because I can’t relax, but now I can get the support I need.

bbhugme review

I’m aware this looks ridiculous and I highly doubt this is an “advised way to wear it”, but when I’m relaxing in the evenings or on weekends I love to tie the bbhugme round my waist. It protects my bump, really supports my back when sat down AND gives me somewhere to perch my arms. It’s like a ready made portable armchair! Plus I can pretend I’m queueing for a lazy river ride at a waterpark which is a nice added bonus.

This video will give a much better overview of what you get in the bag (the bag is great for transporting it for travel by the way!), how you use it in bed and just how much I love it….

I really do LOVE it.

My only regret is not getting one sooner. And there’s no way I’ll stop using it postpartum. Regardless of the baby nest/nursing pillow potential, I’ll want to sleep with this bad boy for forever more.

As well as being gorgeously supportive, there’s added peace of mind that this is a safe product to have around babies and children. It’s constructed with eco-friendly bamboo (so so soft!) and BPA free silicon pebbles. The pillow and its accessories are certified by OEKO/TEX in addition to being food grade certified. If your bubba wants to chew on the pebbles whilst teething, that’s a-ok!

You can read more about the pillow on the bbhugme website and they also have really helpful vids and pics so you can see just how versatile it is. They ship to the UK (and elsewhere!) but you can also find them stocked in the UK on Scandiborn.

Now if someone could just invent a product so I wouldn’t have to go to the loo every 30 minutes, that would be ace.

xxx

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38 top AlexandAlexa sale picks for seriously cool babies and toddlers…

July 6, 2017 By Poppy Dinsey Leave a Comment

Once upon a time, I’d have to file daily shopping features for clients and of course for WIWT. There wasn’t a high street website which I didn’t know inside out. I’d feel like some sort of fashion spy sharing secrets with girlfriends over cocktails or (more realistically) hastily typed DMs on Twitter. “That lady’s shoes? Oh they’re on Net-a-Porter nooooooow, but they’ll be on The Outnet soon if you’ve got the stomach to see if the size 5s don’t sell out. Then you can get the clutch too”. If I could have gone on Mastermind with my specialist subject as “new in at ASOS, plus Topshop sale party dresses which are still available in 8-16” I swear I’d have been walking away with the trophy.

But as my sartorial attention has turned to all things “billowy” and “leggings”, I was concerned my previously acquired skills for hunting out a bargain were going to ebb away to nothing. I don’t need nice clothes! I’ll just wear this bin bag or ideally nothing at all except aqueous cream! Don’t mind me!

Then the 20 week scan came and went and, with all thankfully being well, I suddenly had this burning desire to BUY EVERYTHING. My rational “babies don’t need fancy clothes” thinking of the first trimester was replaced with “I will sell everything I own if my babies can wear matching Mini Rodini” and the rest was history. Luckily this dawning realisation that actually I really do want to have ALL THE THINGS has coincideded with a lot of the best kidswear brands having summer sales.

The AlexandAlexa sale? Well that might be the best of all – with up to 60% off some of the stuff I’ve been wanting for ages. (Let’s ignore the fact there’s also 60% off a bunch of things I had JUST BOUGHT FULL PRICE elsewhere because, gah.)

There’s loads of kidswear bargains for all ages but for this edit I’m going to mainly focus on babies (although most of what I’ve chosen does go up to toddler age) because this list is already long enough and, well, I’m shopping for babies myself and I am lazy.

This isn’t a sponsored post, I just feel better about spending half my week browsing their site if I argue to myself that I’m also getting a blog post out of it. (Ahem).

Happy shopping!

x

1. Banana Print Sweat Pants by Indikidual – £25.50 (were £34)

Banana leggings

I have gone absolutely bananas for these. (Sorry not sorry)

Buy here.

2. Swimming Pool Blanket by Molo – £28 (was £40)

Swimming pool blanket

Handmade crochet is super lovely, obviously, but have you SEEN this print?!

Buy here.

3. Splash Sleepsack by NUNUNU – £25.90 (was £37)

Splash sleep sack

Hi there just wondering why sleepsacks for adults aren’t a thing?

Buy here.

4. Dress by Kenzo Kids – £36.50 (was £73)

Kenzo dress

PLEASE MAKE AN ADULT VERSION KENZO.

Buy here.

5. Pram Shoes by Adidas Originals – £36 (were £90)

Pram shoes

Heads up now that my twins will mostly be wearing Adidas Originals and they will look frikkin cool doing it.

Buy here.

6. Troublemaker Jumper by Noe & Zoe Berlin – £25.90 (was £37)

Troublemaker

If Olly Murs made kidswear.

Buy here.

7. Leggings by Bang Bang Copenhagen – £18 (were £30)

Leggings

So dreamy, so something I would wear.

Buy here.

8. Jumper by Mini Rodini – £24 (was £40)

Sweatshirt

Adult version very much needed.

Buy here.

9. Sailor Romper by Cyrillus – £17.50 (was £25)

Sailor

Obviously you don’t need me to explain how adorable this is.

Buy here.

10. Dress by Noe & Zoe Berlin – £22.40 (was £32)

dress

Oh how very darling!

Buy here.

11. Tee by Bang Bang Copenhagen – £24.60 (was £41) 

Tee

A mixture of bank robber and cowboy, I LIKE IT.

Buy here.

12. Blanket by Koolabah – £22.40 (was £32)

Blanket

I’d like to go to this circus.

Buy here.

13. Sailor Tee by MC2 St Barth – £12.80 (was £32)

Sailor tee

Goodness me this might be the cutest thing I have EVER SEEN?!

Buy here.

14. Fringed Leggings by Bang Bang Copenhagen – £19.20 (were £32)

Fringed leggings

Bubbas need to be festival ready too you guys.

Buy here.

15. Jungle Book Swaddles by Aden + Anais – £26.40 (were £44)

Swaddles

I’ve already bought these and can confirm they are a) HUGE b) super soft and c) very adorable.

Buy here.

16. Leggings by Mini Rodini – £12 (were £24)

MR Leggings

I am totem-ly in love with these. (I know that is a very bad pun. I am very tired. Sleeping during twin pregnancy is HARD).

Buy here.

17. Romper by Mayoral – £13.80 (was £23)

Romper

If you can imagine Prince George wearing it you know you need it.

Buy here.

18. Leggings by Indikidual – £16.50 (were £23)

Sushi leggings

For your very own little sushi roll.

Buy here.

19. Swimsuit by Tinycottons – £30 (was £40)

Swimsuit

Again, feel free to make an adult version of this Tinycottons.

Buy here.

20. Leggings by Moschino – £30 (were £50)Moschino leggins

There’s so much Moschino in the sale, do have a look if you like their teddies as much as I do.

Buy here.

21. Winnie the Pooh Swaddles by Aden + Anais – £33 (were £44)

Swaddles

Perfect for mopping up spilled honey.

Buy here.

22. Lion Leggings by Mini Rodini – £13.20 (were £22)

Lion leggings

Hear me roar.

Buy here.

23. Bib by Molo – £7.50 (was £10)

Molo bib

Bring a bit of poolside chic to your weaning nightmares.

Buy here.

24. Three Baby Bodies by Petit Bateau – £10.80 (were £18)

Babygros

There’s not enough orange clothing for babies, when you see it you need to support it.

Buy here.

25. Tee by Mini Rodini – £15.40 (was £22)

Rose tee

Every rose has its thorns.

Buy here.

26. Leggings by Noe & Zoe Berlin – £14.70 (were £21)

Blue leggings

Abstract stripes are better than uniform stripes.

Buy here.

27. Cardigan by Paul Smith Junior – £33 (was £66)

cardi

Ignore what I said above, uniform stripes are scrumptious too.

Buy here.

28. Blanket by Koolabah – £19.20 (was £32)

Blanket

Expect pram envy whenever you take this out.

Buy here.

29. Sweat Pants by Kenzo Kids – £27.60 (were £46)

Kenzo sweats

These would be my dream maternity pants right now.

Buy here.

30. Jumper by Stella McCartney Kids – £45 (was £60)

Rainbow jumper

I might have to buy just one of these and whichever twin behaves the best gets to wear it.

Buy here.

31. Leggings by Billieblush – £10.50 (were £15)

Leggings

Pineapple knees!

Buy here.

32. Body Suit by Mini Rodini – £21 (was £35)

lion suit

I have so much space in my heart for this lion print.

Buy here.

33. Leggings by Noe & Zoe Berlin – £14.70 (were £21)

Cloud leggings

Every cloud and all that.

Buy here.

34. Babygrow by Hatley – £13.30 (was £19)

dinosaur babygrow

I am irrationally scared of dinosaurs given the likelihood of my ever encountering one is highly unlikely, but these aren’t too scary. These are quite delightful.

Buy here.

35. Jungle Book Musys by Aden + Anais – £14 (were £20)

Musys

Like their infamous swaddles, just smaller.

Buy here.

36. Baby grow by Mayoral – £11.40 (was £19)

Mayoral baby grow

Princess Charlotte would!

Buy here.

37. Swimsuit by Tinycottons – £26.60 (was £38)

swimsuit

Ridiculous and perfect.

Buy here.

38. United kit by Adidas – £14.40 (was £36)

United kit

No matter how trendy I may want my babies may be the rest of the time, on match days they’re United fans. No questions.

Buy here.

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